aRe u ReaDY?
hye all..wat’s up?..2 more days to go b4 my ass touch down in Myy…havent pack my bag yet…i dont even know wat i wanna bring back home…the must bring will be my laptop, passport, wallet…a bit of my cloth of coz…haih, i hv da feeling of sadness plak suddenly…for sure coz i will nvr see my cayunk n mi novio for the last time…huhu…mi novio too busy, as well as cayunk…hope will meet them on june =)
today, i got inspired to write blog…juz sumthing dat i wanna share wit u guys…basically its abt life…n the path dat u choose…
last 2 week, there was this 1 gurl yg keje at my place got married…congratulations…eventhough they are not so ‘match made in heaven’, dah jodoh kan…but, wat makes me wanna write abt it is the gurl age…she is juz 19 YEARS OLD…FUCKING 19 YEARS OLD!…and her guy is around 30 SUMTHING AGE…u got wat i mean?…she’s so beautiful gurl but end up marrying sum1 dat really old for her…its not dat i wanna kutuk or sumthing…but…consider dis, she’s juz 19 but already married…i mean, how come dat u really know u r ready to be a mom when u juz finish high school?..FOR SURE, I DONT…come on, she’s 19 n happily married compared to me, 20, single n still killing my brain to count how many trusses dat i should used to replicate another KLCC!
I juz cant imagine dat next year she’s going to have a baby…GOD!…wat happen to da world today?…its not like i against married at young age…i dont…my mom got married when she was 22 n my dad was 23…n i’m so proud of having them as my parent…but, wat’s killing me is teenager rite now making so easy desicion…when u fall in love, too much n cant resist…juz get married…i know, according to Islamic Laws of Marriage, it is WAJIB to get married if u r so horny…but, why cant u consider the consequences aftr the marriage…u gonna have babies…people like now love to have big family…beranak bnyk2…mcm pompuan ni kilang buat anak je…aftr dat, ur babies gonna grow up n going to school…
people nowdays dont really consider the children performance during their school days…asl pegi skolah, dat’s it…x kisah la ur sons or daughters dpt nombor corot ke, fail ke…it means nothing to u at all…it really breaks my heart to have parents yg hv those kind of thinking….especially young parents…
juz really hit my curiousity…how do u know U ARE READY?…or u actually nvr thing abt wat happen aftr marriage?…the responsibility of the family…i dont think i am…until today, if ade org masuk meminang, even if its my dearest bf (if i hv one)..i will say no…i juz cant picture myself as A MOTHER at age of 20!…to me, women should have education b4 getting married…education in da sense of knowing how to become a wife n future mother…my mom always told me that…tell me wat do u know abt being a mom at age 19?…xkan nak harap kat parents n parents in law…
Marriage is not abt SEX n HAPPY LIFE AS COUPLE…it means more than dat…u become attached to another new life n position…position dat only u can decide whether u wanna stay or u wanna leave…BIG RESPONSIBILITIES behind marriage…people said marriage is a ONE LIFE TIME COMMITMENT…u hope dat once u get married, it last forever…but when u get married juz based on the ‘happy life’ potrayed by other married people, u juz dont realise wat type of world u got urself into.
hillie 1203
